Dear Speed Seduction Student,
In the last issue, I introduced some of the core concepts for getting really good at seducing hot women, even when you don't have looks, social status or money.
Just to review, I taught you:
1. Focus on her feelings first. Get your mind off the behaviors you want from her(sex, undying loyalty, threesomes, etc) and put your mind and focus on what feeling states she would have to be in, in order to want to naturally give you those behaviors.
2. Realize that the key to her feelings is her imagination. Capture and lead her imagination and you can generate the intense feelings and emotions she craves.
3. The key to capturing her imagination AND emotions is how you use your language. Remember the example from last issue of romance novels; they out do every other form of fiction combined, because they appeal to women's fantasies, imagination and emotions, even though we, as guys, would never read such stuff.
The Mystery Of Women's "Feelings" Explained
In order to understand just how to tap into the deep feelings that women crave, like "chemistry", attraction, desire, fascination, incredible connection I need to make the briefest of detours into a discipline called Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP. Please, please bear with me, because the next couple of paragraphs will allow you to enjoy a profound understanding of how women "tick" that will skyrocket your success with them more a new Porsche, perfect pecs, or high status and fame.
The Concept of States And " Emotional Recipes"
One of the core ideas of NLP is that people don't just mysteriously "get" feelings. Feelings and emotions are the end result of a process that people run on the inside of themselves, involving what they say to themselves, how they picture things in their minds, and what flows of internal physical sensations they experience inside their bodies.
Now, bear with me here, because this is both simple AND important. Think of a woman you really, REALLY want to be with.
Wouldn't you like her to experience the following emotional "states" with you?
*Chemistry
*Fascination
*Connection
*Desire
You would agree that those would be great for starters, yes? That, given THOSE feelings, she would be far more likely to say, "JUMP ME NOW" instead of "Let's just be friends!"
By the way, if the only thing you hear from women is "Let's just be friends" it is because the only feeling states she experiences around you are casual enjoyment and comfort. Not enough to get her doing the grown up!)
Are you following along so far?
Ok. For this lovely lady to experience these intense, positive feeling states with you, she has to run some kind of internal process or "recipe" to get the end result of wanting you.
An Example To Help Understand And A Half Truth Corrected And Explained
As an example, a woman might first look at you and get a bit of a tingle in her tummy. Then she might picture you and her naked. Then she might say to herself "yummm". Then perhaps she might feel tightness in her throat, her nipples hardening, and the tingles going down to her crotch. She might picture the two of you meeting her friends and feeling a sense of pride.
The key is this: this will all flash through her body and mind in seconds, so fast in fact, that she will almost always something she is NOT consciously aware of doing.
Now, you may have heard it said that women will decide in the first ten seconds if they are going to sleep with a guy.
This is almost always NOT true. What is true is that when women DO decide to sleep with you,(whether it's ten minutes or ten months into knowing you) they will run that process of deciding through their body and mind in LESS than ten seconds.
Ok. I think I've piled enough on you for now. But I want you to really re-read this newsletter another time. Maybe print it out and take it with you for a long walk, and think about the implications and how it begins to make sense of a very important piece of your life. Remember the more we can "de-mystify" women's emotions and make them something we can bring to the surface and LINK to us, the more power, choice, and enjoyment with women we are going to have; women most guys just get to dream about.
In the next issue we'll get into the nuts and bolts of how to actually start using your language to do this.
Until then,
P e a c e a n d p i e c e ,
R o s s
P.S. If you want to find out more about the Speed Seduction® Home Study Course that has gotten thousands of guys going strongly in the seduction game, getting them the women they really want, check out my website, with free video files at: http://www.speedseduction.net/products/rj87.asp
This newsletter, and all of its contents are copyright Ross Jeffries. However this newsletter may be reprinted and re-used in any format, without prior consent, provided all content, including all links, are kept intact, proper credit for authorship is given, and the newsletter is given for free, without charge.
Friday, September 25, 2009
Thursday, September 17, 2009
How To Talk Women Into Your Bed: Part I
Wednesday 3:45 PM
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
A common question I am asked is: How can I get women hot by how I talk to them? How can I use my words to create attraction in women, without having to rely on my looks or social standing or money?
Well, as the 18th century French Philosopher, Voltaire said: "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the Queen of France". (By the way, Voltaire was a good pal of Ben Franklin, one of America's founding fathers and together they seduced hundreds of hot women. And they were doing this well into their 80's)
Now I'm sure you have probably known a guy who wasn't good looking, didn't have money, but somehow he just knew what to say to women to make them eager to "jack his beanstalk", "ride his baloney pony" and "do the grown up".
In short, he had lots of women, while better-looking guys had few or none. The reality is that men have been "sweet-talking" women out of their panties (or bloomers or whatever) since recorded history began.
It's just with Speed Seduction we are going to make it a lot more precise for you by introducing you to the concept of "recipes" or "states".
You see, one key shift in understanding how to get what you want with the women you want is:
STOP FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU WANT WOMEN TO DO WITH YOU!
Now, I know this may seem like a key paradox. After all, isn't this all about getting very hot women to do what we want-sleep with us, give us great sex, worship the ground we slink across, etc?
Yes, of course it is. But the key here is, GO FOR HER FEELINGS FIRST!
If you can create the intense, passionate feelings in women that they dream about then THE BEHAVIORS THAT FLOW FROM THOSE FEELINGS: HAVING GREAT SEX, PLEASING YOU, AND ANY KINKY STUFF YOU LIKE WILL COME NATRUALLY AND EASILY.
So the real question is: how can we awaken the feelings and emotional states that give us this kind of "leverage" with women?
The key is to capture and lead her imagination.
Just remember this rule: her imagination is the key to her emotions. Her emotions are the key to her bedroom door!
I don't care how hot she is. I don't care if she is a "10" on the looks scale and YOU are a "two". If you can capture her imagination, then you can capture her emotions.
Capture her emotions and you tap into the deep cultural and social conditioning that teaches women from the time they can first speak that following their emotions is the key to being a woman.
Now, the good news is, you can do this in a way that truly fulfills her and leaves her feeling wonderful, so BOTH of you win.
The next issue of this newsletter will begin the process of teaching you how. For now, bear this in mind:
Every year, romance novels outsell every other form of fiction combined, not just in the United States, but the ENTIRE Western world.
Tom Clancy, John LeCarre, Stephen King and any of your other favorite authors combined can't even make even a small dent in the sales of books that you and I as men would RIGHTLY consider trash!
Yet women of all ages read these things.
Why? Simply because they want their imagination and emotions stimulated and women do this through words; the words they speak, the words they hear, and in this case the words they read.
You may not have an ugly face to talk away. You may not want to "bed the Queen of France." But to be the king of the bedroom, you have to learn to structure your communication in ways most guys will never even begin to consider or understand.
You can get going right now by going to:
http://www.speedseduction.net/products/rj87.asp
In our next issue, we'll talk about the all important ideas of emotional "recipes" and "states" and how this will allow you to jump from chump to seduction super-star.
Until then,
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
P.S. I don't care by the way if you want lots of ladies or just one special girl for a long-term relationship.
Unless you can learn to trigger her "attraction" and "chemistry" states, you won't get a one-night stand or a "real-hate-shun-ship". You will merely hear that age-old curse, "Let's just be friend". YUCCH! I wouldn't wish that on a Washington bureaucrat or the kids in high school who used to beat me silly!
This newsletter, and all of its contents are copyright Ross Jeffries. However this newsletter may be reprinted and re-used in any format, without prior consent, provided all content, including all links, are kept intact, proper credit for authorship is given, and the newsletter is given for free, without charge.
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
A common question I am asked is: How can I get women hot by how I talk to them? How can I use my words to create attraction in women, without having to rely on my looks or social standing or money?
Well, as the 18th century French Philosopher, Voltaire said: "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the Queen of France". (By the way, Voltaire was a good pal of Ben Franklin, one of America's founding fathers and together they seduced hundreds of hot women. And they were doing this well into their 80's)
Now I'm sure you have probably known a guy who wasn't good looking, didn't have money, but somehow he just knew what to say to women to make them eager to "jack his beanstalk", "ride his baloney pony" and "do the grown up".
In short, he had lots of women, while better-looking guys had few or none. The reality is that men have been "sweet-talking" women out of their panties (or bloomers or whatever) since recorded history began.
It's just with Speed Seduction we are going to make it a lot more precise for you by introducing you to the concept of "recipes" or "states".
You see, one key shift in understanding how to get what you want with the women you want is:
STOP FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU WANT WOMEN TO DO WITH YOU!
Now, I know this may seem like a key paradox. After all, isn't this all about getting very hot women to do what we want-sleep with us, give us great sex, worship the ground we slink across, etc?
Yes, of course it is. But the key here is, GO FOR HER FEELINGS FIRST!
If you can create the intense, passionate feelings in women that they dream about then THE BEHAVIORS THAT FLOW FROM THOSE FEELINGS: HAVING GREAT SEX, PLEASING YOU, AND ANY KINKY STUFF YOU LIKE WILL COME NATRUALLY AND EASILY.
So the real question is: how can we awaken the feelings and emotional states that give us this kind of "leverage" with women?
The key is to capture and lead her imagination.
Just remember this rule: her imagination is the key to her emotions. Her emotions are the key to her bedroom door!
I don't care how hot she is. I don't care if she is a "10" on the looks scale and YOU are a "two". If you can capture her imagination, then you can capture her emotions.
Capture her emotions and you tap into the deep cultural and social conditioning that teaches women from the time they can first speak that following their emotions is the key to being a woman.
Now, the good news is, you can do this in a way that truly fulfills her and leaves her feeling wonderful, so BOTH of you win.
The next issue of this newsletter will begin the process of teaching you how. For now, bear this in mind:
Every year, romance novels outsell every other form of fiction combined, not just in the United States, but the ENTIRE Western world.
Tom Clancy, John LeCarre, Stephen King and any of your other favorite authors combined can't even make even a small dent in the sales of books that you and I as men would RIGHTLY consider trash!
Yet women of all ages read these things.
Why? Simply because they want their imagination and emotions stimulated and women do this through words; the words they speak, the words they hear, and in this case the words they read.
You may not have an ugly face to talk away. You may not want to "bed the Queen of France." But to be the king of the bedroom, you have to learn to structure your communication in ways most guys will never even begin to consider or understand.
You can get going right now by going to:
http://www.speedseduction.net/products/rj87.asp
In our next issue, we'll talk about the all important ideas of emotional "recipes" and "states" and how this will allow you to jump from chump to seduction super-star.
Until then,
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
P.S. I don't care by the way if you want lots of ladies or just one special girl for a long-term relationship.
Unless you can learn to trigger her "attraction" and "chemistry" states, you won't get a one-night stand or a "real-hate-shun-ship". You will merely hear that age-old curse, "Let's just be friend". YUCCH! I wouldn't wish that on a Washington bureaucrat or the kids in high school who used to beat me silly!
This newsletter, and all of its contents are copyright Ross Jeffries. However this newsletter may be reprinted and re-used in any format, without prior consent, provided all content, including all links, are kept intact, proper credit for authorship is given, and the newsletter is given for free, without charge.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Affirmations: How to do them for REAL.
A client called the other day. He was in an accident with a four wheeler (ATV) and broke his back. After two disc were removed and his spine rebuilt, he spends some 20 hours a day sitting or laying down. He has the SS course and was studying the affirmations. He called to say that the affirmations were not working for him because he did not believe them. In particular, “I am the best thing that could happen to a woman”.
His problem wasn’t the affirmations and we will get back to them absolutely. He did not believe them because he was broken and he thought “no woman would not want to be with a broken man”. He was projecting his beliefs on to any and every woman. When I pointed this out, you could immediately here a change in him. There are lots of women who are attracted to men who need help, assistance, nursing. Remember, mothering is a natural instinct of women. I told him to stop acting sorry for himself. He also thought that any woman who was attracted would just be giving him a mercy fuck.
Now back to affirmations. I give an example of in seminars. It goes as follows. Imagine yourself standing in front of a mirror and saying, “I am the world’s greatest tennis player”. If you have a mirror, go do it. What happens? What does that little voice in the back of your head say? “Like hell”, “Are you kidding”, “No Way”.
Now, while still standing in front of that mirror say, “You will acquire the foot speed and hand-eye coordination to become a first class tennis player”. Listen for the little voice in the back of you head. What does it say?
Three things about affirmations to get the results you want.
First, they must be worded so that you believe them.
Second, address your subconscious mind with YOU.
Third, incorporate an NLP process, i.e., give the subconscious a direction, a way, a process to execute. The subconscious will relentlessly process the instruction to achieve the result.
Your Guide to the Future
Dr YJC
His problem wasn’t the affirmations and we will get back to them absolutely. He did not believe them because he was broken and he thought “no woman would not want to be with a broken man”. He was projecting his beliefs on to any and every woman. When I pointed this out, you could immediately here a change in him. There are lots of women who are attracted to men who need help, assistance, nursing. Remember, mothering is a natural instinct of women. I told him to stop acting sorry for himself. He also thought that any woman who was attracted would just be giving him a mercy fuck.
Now back to affirmations. I give an example of in seminars. It goes as follows. Imagine yourself standing in front of a mirror and saying, “I am the world’s greatest tennis player”. If you have a mirror, go do it. What happens? What does that little voice in the back of your head say? “Like hell”, “Are you kidding”, “No Way”.
Now, while still standing in front of that mirror say, “You will acquire the foot speed and hand-eye coordination to become a first class tennis player”. Listen for the little voice in the back of you head. What does it say?
Three things about affirmations to get the results you want.
First, they must be worded so that you believe them.
Second, address your subconscious mind with YOU.
Third, incorporate an NLP process, i.e., give the subconscious a direction, a way, a process to execute. The subconscious will relentlessly process the instruction to achieve the result.
Your Guide to the Future
Dr YJC
Thursday, August 20, 2009
A Belief does Not require something to be True.
A belief does not require something to be true. A belief only requires us to believe that something is true. Which means that most of what reality is to each of us is based on what we have come to believe – whether it’s true or not is really our own opinion. The belief that we have about anything is so powerful that it can even make something appear to be something completely and totally different than it really is.
Anything worth doing is worth doing.
Comparison and Contrast
Anything worth doing is worth doing (Badly or Right). If at first you don’t succeed then (Quit or try, try again).
There is no TRY. There is only DO.
If at first you don’t succeed then look at what you did and DO something different next time.
I am responsible for my own outcomes.
Comparison and Contrast
Others are responsible for my good and bad fortune. I am simply a victim of circumstances. (Bad or Good)
Work is a magnificent adventure.
Comparison and Contrast
Work is something we must tolerate until vacation. A job is something you must do to pay the bills. Or as one person put it once, JOB is Just Over Broke
In every adversity are hidden seeds of victory / opportunity.
Comparison and Contrast
Adversity is nature’s signal that you are about to lose.
Things don’t get better by accident; things get better by appropriate action.
Comparison and Contrast
You are either lucky or you are not lucky. Some are born with it and some are not born with it.
Luck is when preparation meets opportunity. Are you prepared and looking for opportunity?
If I give others what they want and need, then they will give me what I want 3 and need, or “As ye sow so shall ye reap,” or “What goes around comes around.”
Comparison and Contrast
Only when somebody starts giving me what I want and need will I help them too.
The Universe Will Provide
Commitment is the key to excellence
Comparison and Contrast
Commitment limits me too much.
The MORE committed you are the more GOOD things seem.
The LESS committed you are to something the MORE difficult things seem.
Dr YJC
Anything worth doing is worth doing.
Comparison and Contrast
Anything worth doing is worth doing (Badly or Right). If at first you don’t succeed then (Quit or try, try again).
There is no TRY. There is only DO.
If at first you don’t succeed then look at what you did and DO something different next time.
I am responsible for my own outcomes.
Comparison and Contrast
Others are responsible for my good and bad fortune. I am simply a victim of circumstances. (Bad or Good)
Work is a magnificent adventure.
Comparison and Contrast
Work is something we must tolerate until vacation. A job is something you must do to pay the bills. Or as one person put it once, JOB is Just Over Broke
In every adversity are hidden seeds of victory / opportunity.
Comparison and Contrast
Adversity is nature’s signal that you are about to lose.
Things don’t get better by accident; things get better by appropriate action.
Comparison and Contrast
You are either lucky or you are not lucky. Some are born with it and some are not born with it.
Luck is when preparation meets opportunity. Are you prepared and looking for opportunity?
If I give others what they want and need, then they will give me what I want 3 and need, or “As ye sow so shall ye reap,” or “What goes around comes around.”
Comparison and Contrast
Only when somebody starts giving me what I want and need will I help them too.
The Universe Will Provide
Commitment is the key to excellence
Comparison and Contrast
Commitment limits me too much.
The MORE committed you are the more GOOD things seem.
The LESS committed you are to something the MORE difficult things seem.
Dr YJC
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Powerful Words of Wisdom
Scott Bolan Speaks:
Some of these will upset some of you. But those who know, will see. And seeing, will conquer!
• Your emotional response transfers control to your agitator.
• Beware of the vote that appeals to emotion.
• Adam did not lead, he followed. And he lost paradise.
• Life is made of Energy. The wise protect it and cultivate it.
• Energy is primarily leaked through thought and speaking.
• Only when we leave the Mechanical, can we begin to enter the Spiritual
• Awareness exists outside of the mechanical
• Turn off the chatterbox of your mind, then you can expand your peripheral vision and "see" the attacker before he even makes a move! The same goes with opportunities...
• Never Emotionally Invest in the Prideful Greedy Jealous or Self-Righteous, they will take you for granted and blame you if they fail.
• Never say what you don't want to happen, for example "I'm worried that you'll steal my idea." By saying so, you may be planting the seed of thought in their minds for them to steal your idea, whereas they may have never thought of it had you not mentioned it.
• Speak Powerfully, not timidly. Say what you mean with no doubt fear worry or hesitation.
• Think Powerfully! When you are thinking fearfully timidly or delusional, say out loud "stop! think Powerfully!"
• No negative friends.
• Character is the basis for relationship. Not religion, race or creed. The question is: what is their character? After establishing that, Intelligence is the basis for continued relationship! The question is: are they intelligent?
• When the attacker trying to kill you is so strong and big they seem impossible to hurt? Target "BENT!" Balls Eyes Nose Throat - at least one of these is fragile on any person. I have seen men kicked in the balls full-force and not appear hurt. I've seen a nose smashed and the guy kept on fighting powerfully. Yet likewise I have seen men stopped cold by them. Target all four and you'll get the right one!
• Arguing common sense is a fool's errand
• Think "Business," not "Job." This is vital!
• Eat Protein before and during Traveling, it burns slower so you get hungry less and eat less
• If you find yourself captivated by sensuality - such as a sex scene in a movie - ask yourself, "am I Pavlov's dog?" YOU should chose when you are stimulated, or would you rather leave that to Pavlov?
• The basis of freedom is choice. If you cannot control your response to a stimulus, you are little more than a dog (if this makes you mad, you are welcome to never come back to this blog - say Hi to Pavlov!)
• You are either the Director, or the "directed."
• It is lonely at the top. People react to the success of others like LSD - they trip out and hallucinate! So don't worry about everybody liking you. Just go for your dream and better friends will find you.
• Studying the Ancient Wisdom of the Saints, Sadhus, Samurai, Ninja and others is useful empowering and enlightening. Why are some people afraid of this information?
• The triceps is the power behind the punch (not the bicep, although it looks good!)
• Practice complete silence of environment and mind for 10 minutes a day and your success will multiply!
• Where are you weak? On the ground? Kicking? Wherever it is, start sparring there! Yep.
• There's always someone who can beat you. That's okay. You can still make them pay VERY dearly for the privilege, and they may be wise enough to realize it's not worth it to beat you.
• When you are attacked, do not try to avoid being hurt. It is a sure way to defeat.
• Respect the privacy of others, and honor everyone
• Reciprocate invitations - if they invited you over, invite them over next time. You'd be surprised how many forget this and wonder why they never heard from so-and-so again.
• Whatever you do, make sure you enjoy doing it. Fun is a HUGE key to success.
• The moment a Saint becomes aware of himself, sainthood is lost (read that again)
• Money is necessary. Have a good sum of it. But if that is what is most important to you, you have lived in illusion.
• You're losing your teen because you outsourced their training and development. Why did you have him or her in the first place? For your portfolio? Time spent together consistently away from electronic stimulus is the cure for this. Start now.
• If she feels empowered by getting attention for her sexiness, you are marrying a problem. A big problem.
• If he feels empowered by impressing your female friends, you are marrying a problem. A big problem.
• Randomness in your actions is good training - stand in a corner, facing a wall stand 2 inches from it, do a shoulder roll in the hallway, you're all dressed up in your shirt and tie? Go hit the bags. Practice your kicks while filling the tank. Bust out in song in public (I have scored BIG with this one!)
• Bring your awareness to how you walk. Notice it? Good. Now straighten up and bring to every movement THE POWER OF INTENTION AND PURPOSE.
• It's easy to see the thoughts of others and sense their energy when you look at them through a NON-ATTACHED MIND!
• When you are attached to your desires, you put out a "pushing-away" energy.
• When you are attached to you own desires and conclusions, you see people and circumstances as YOU are (This is what is meant by the term “perception is projection”). By being non-attached, you can see how they REALLY are (this is called "awareness")
• Lose out in the market? Blow a big deal? Lose a ton of money? Good. Welcome to life. Now go out there and kick some ass! Or would you rather sit around and whine? Or would you rather sit around and be afraid?
• Shed the emotional attachment to the past, it's like an addiction to prescription drugs - it's effecting your clear judgment and hindering your advancement. Flush the pills! Clear the slate and go out there and kick some ass.
• Look them in the eye and tell the truth
• You allowed yourself to be put in a box - democrat, republican, religious, atheist, etc. How much can one see from the inside of a box?
• At every moment, these questions define you: Is that who you are? Is that what you're really about?
• Your Intuition and your Conscience are your most valuable assets
• Be Still and Know (the opposite is also true: Be un-still and you'll be ignorant!)
• There are teachers, fighters and technicians. Rare is one who is all three, or even a combination of the two.
• The envious will try to make you feel guilty if you make money. It is they who are fixated on money.
• Genuine Modesty is priceless. False Modesty is worthless.
• Fear will always remain when you are attached to the outcome.
• "The Busy Mind" is a state of perpetual hypnosis. Read it again. You can wake up now. Welcome back!
• Secure your home. Now.
• Lay down the rules right at the start. If you neglected to do this, lay them down right now before proceeding forward.
• Stepford wives, Stepford people. They are shallow and should be avoided.
• It's easy to see the thoughts of others, it is a matter of letting it be seen.
• Run out ahead of them and beat them to the punch!
• Cause or Effect. Which side are you on?
• Design or Default. Which are you living by?
• When the actor has mastered the material, he is off-script. The best singers don't read from a sheet. The spaceship sheds it's fuel tanks when it passes through the atmosphere. Books and learnings are like this.
• Do not dress loudly.
• Do not look to the Government as your provider. It is at best the school-yard referee.
• Do not be moved by praise (temptation), or by persecution (criticism).
• Order is Heaven's First Law. Put it in your life now and keep it there.
• Doubts are Decisions.
• Emotion is like a yellow-belt. It has it's basic use. But how long can you hold up a sign before your arms weary?
• Do not let the culture define you. Define yourself.
To Your Success,
Scott Bolan
Some of these will upset some of you. But those who know, will see. And seeing, will conquer!
• Your emotional response transfers control to your agitator.
• Beware of the vote that appeals to emotion.
• Adam did not lead, he followed. And he lost paradise.
• Life is made of Energy. The wise protect it and cultivate it.
• Energy is primarily leaked through thought and speaking.
• Only when we leave the Mechanical, can we begin to enter the Spiritual
• Awareness exists outside of the mechanical
• Turn off the chatterbox of your mind, then you can expand your peripheral vision and "see" the attacker before he even makes a move! The same goes with opportunities...
• Never Emotionally Invest in the Prideful Greedy Jealous or Self-Righteous, they will take you for granted and blame you if they fail.
• Never say what you don't want to happen, for example "I'm worried that you'll steal my idea." By saying so, you may be planting the seed of thought in their minds for them to steal your idea, whereas they may have never thought of it had you not mentioned it.
• Speak Powerfully, not timidly. Say what you mean with no doubt fear worry or hesitation.
• Think Powerfully! When you are thinking fearfully timidly or delusional, say out loud "stop! think Powerfully!"
• No negative friends.
• Character is the basis for relationship. Not religion, race or creed. The question is: what is their character? After establishing that, Intelligence is the basis for continued relationship! The question is: are they intelligent?
• When the attacker trying to kill you is so strong and big they seem impossible to hurt? Target "BENT!" Balls Eyes Nose Throat - at least one of these is fragile on any person. I have seen men kicked in the balls full-force and not appear hurt. I've seen a nose smashed and the guy kept on fighting powerfully. Yet likewise I have seen men stopped cold by them. Target all four and you'll get the right one!
• Arguing common sense is a fool's errand
• Think "Business," not "Job." This is vital!
• Eat Protein before and during Traveling, it burns slower so you get hungry less and eat less
• If you find yourself captivated by sensuality - such as a sex scene in a movie - ask yourself, "am I Pavlov's dog?" YOU should chose when you are stimulated, or would you rather leave that to Pavlov?
• The basis of freedom is choice. If you cannot control your response to a stimulus, you are little more than a dog (if this makes you mad, you are welcome to never come back to this blog - say Hi to Pavlov!)
• You are either the Director, or the "directed."
• It is lonely at the top. People react to the success of others like LSD - they trip out and hallucinate! So don't worry about everybody liking you. Just go for your dream and better friends will find you.
• Studying the Ancient Wisdom of the Saints, Sadhus, Samurai, Ninja and others is useful empowering and enlightening. Why are some people afraid of this information?
• The triceps is the power behind the punch (not the bicep, although it looks good!)
• Practice complete silence of environment and mind for 10 minutes a day and your success will multiply!
• Where are you weak? On the ground? Kicking? Wherever it is, start sparring there! Yep.
• There's always someone who can beat you. That's okay. You can still make them pay VERY dearly for the privilege, and they may be wise enough to realize it's not worth it to beat you.
• When you are attacked, do not try to avoid being hurt. It is a sure way to defeat.
• Respect the privacy of others, and honor everyone
• Reciprocate invitations - if they invited you over, invite them over next time. You'd be surprised how many forget this and wonder why they never heard from so-and-so again.
• Whatever you do, make sure you enjoy doing it. Fun is a HUGE key to success.
• The moment a Saint becomes aware of himself, sainthood is lost (read that again)
• Money is necessary. Have a good sum of it. But if that is what is most important to you, you have lived in illusion.
• You're losing your teen because you outsourced their training and development. Why did you have him or her in the first place? For your portfolio? Time spent together consistently away from electronic stimulus is the cure for this. Start now.
• If she feels empowered by getting attention for her sexiness, you are marrying a problem. A big problem.
• If he feels empowered by impressing your female friends, you are marrying a problem. A big problem.
• Randomness in your actions is good training - stand in a corner, facing a wall stand 2 inches from it, do a shoulder roll in the hallway, you're all dressed up in your shirt and tie? Go hit the bags. Practice your kicks while filling the tank. Bust out in song in public (I have scored BIG with this one!)
• Bring your awareness to how you walk. Notice it? Good. Now straighten up and bring to every movement THE POWER OF INTENTION AND PURPOSE.
• It's easy to see the thoughts of others and sense their energy when you look at them through a NON-ATTACHED MIND!
• When you are attached to your desires, you put out a "pushing-away" energy.
• When you are attached to you own desires and conclusions, you see people and circumstances as YOU are (This is what is meant by the term “perception is projection”). By being non-attached, you can see how they REALLY are (this is called "awareness")
• Lose out in the market? Blow a big deal? Lose a ton of money? Good. Welcome to life. Now go out there and kick some ass! Or would you rather sit around and whine? Or would you rather sit around and be afraid?
• Shed the emotional attachment to the past, it's like an addiction to prescription drugs - it's effecting your clear judgment and hindering your advancement. Flush the pills! Clear the slate and go out there and kick some ass.
• Look them in the eye and tell the truth
• You allowed yourself to be put in a box - democrat, republican, religious, atheist, etc. How much can one see from the inside of a box?
• At every moment, these questions define you: Is that who you are? Is that what you're really about?
• Your Intuition and your Conscience are your most valuable assets
• Be Still and Know (the opposite is also true: Be un-still and you'll be ignorant!)
• There are teachers, fighters and technicians. Rare is one who is all three, or even a combination of the two.
• The envious will try to make you feel guilty if you make money. It is they who are fixated on money.
• Genuine Modesty is priceless. False Modesty is worthless.
• Fear will always remain when you are attached to the outcome.
• "The Busy Mind" is a state of perpetual hypnosis. Read it again. You can wake up now. Welcome back!
• Secure your home. Now.
• Lay down the rules right at the start. If you neglected to do this, lay them down right now before proceeding forward.
• Stepford wives, Stepford people. They are shallow and should be avoided.
• It's easy to see the thoughts of others, it is a matter of letting it be seen.
• Run out ahead of them and beat them to the punch!
• Cause or Effect. Which side are you on?
• Design or Default. Which are you living by?
• When the actor has mastered the material, he is off-script. The best singers don't read from a sheet. The spaceship sheds it's fuel tanks when it passes through the atmosphere. Books and learnings are like this.
• Do not dress loudly.
• Do not look to the Government as your provider. It is at best the school-yard referee.
• Do not be moved by praise (temptation), or by persecution (criticism).
• Order is Heaven's First Law. Put it in your life now and keep it there.
• Doubts are Decisions.
• Emotion is like a yellow-belt. It has it's basic use. But how long can you hold up a sign before your arms weary?
• Do not let the culture define you. Define yourself.
To Your Success,
Scott Bolan
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
The Tao Principle of Balance in Motion
Today this question came in about the All-New Speed Summit Home Study Course:
"I am currently trying to decide whether or not to buy the Speed Summit 2008 DVD course. I watched your videos on YouTube and I really like your style, but I have just one question: You say that one should never be moved by praise or persecution. That is easy to say for someone who's been born insensitive. For me, however, it's exactly as good as the suggestion to not feel pain when kicked in the balls. I would really like to know if you are just giving spread-your-wings-and-fly type of advice, or are you also capable of teaching people how to actually do it?. OLav"
"Olav!"
When I talk about not being moved by praise or persecution, I am NOT talking about being insensitive. Far from it!
In fact, I teach an increase in sensory acuity so one can see what is ACTUALLY occurring!
I didn't say don't notice it.
I didn't say don't care.
I said don't be MOVED by it.
For example,
Praise: "Olav, you are such a great guy. Please loan me 1000 dollars"
Persecution: "Olav, you are so greedy. Don't you care about me at all? Loan me 1000 dollars"
In each of the above, the person is using praise or persecution in order to pressure you to lend him 1000 dollars.
To be MOVED by either would be to succumb to the pressure and loan the 1000 dollars, even if your intuition is telling you that you shouldn't loan the 1000 dollars because it would cause you hardship or you may never be repaid.
This is a very different from "feeling pain when kicked in the balls"
I didn't say don't feel it.
I didn't say it doesn't hurt.
I said don't be MOVED by it, meaning, don't waver from your honor or principle and trusting your instincts for the sake of the pressure/pain of praise/persecution.
And the more SENSITIVE a person is, the more they need to know this stuff so they can control their own destiny and not be manipulated by those who are less caring and sensitive - the selfish, the greedy, the energy vampires.
Make sense?
And YES, I explain exactly "how to" near the end of the first DVD, beginning of the 2nd DVD in the Speed Summit Home Study course.
It's called the Mental Horse Stance and Tao/Jeet Kune Do principle of Balance in Motion.
You'll also discover how to:
* Move with Dynamic Intention
* Harness The Power of Focus
* Influence Others Magnetically
* Live By Design, Rather Than Default!
* The One Word Concept that is the KEY to Mastering Life
* How To Protect Your Energy
....and MORE!
(this is all on the first DVD by the way)
Listen up. This 7-DVD home study course (over 13 hours of live seminar footage) is available at an introductory price 295.00 until Sunday Night!
After that, it goes up to 495.00, no exceptions or time extensions. So if you're interested at all you really should buy now.
Yours in the Tao of Huna Light,
Scott Bolan
"I am currently trying to decide whether or not to buy the Speed Summit 2008 DVD course. I watched your videos on YouTube and I really like your style, but I have just one question: You say that one should never be moved by praise or persecution. That is easy to say for someone who's been born insensitive. For me, however, it's exactly as good as the suggestion to not feel pain when kicked in the balls. I would really like to know if you are just giving spread-your-wings-and-fly type of advice, or are you also capable of teaching people how to actually do it?. OLav"
"Olav!"
When I talk about not being moved by praise or persecution, I am NOT talking about being insensitive. Far from it!
In fact, I teach an increase in sensory acuity so one can see what is ACTUALLY occurring!
I didn't say don't notice it.
I didn't say don't care.
I said don't be MOVED by it.
For example,
Praise: "Olav, you are such a great guy. Please loan me 1000 dollars"
Persecution: "Olav, you are so greedy. Don't you care about me at all? Loan me 1000 dollars"
In each of the above, the person is using praise or persecution in order to pressure you to lend him 1000 dollars.
To be MOVED by either would be to succumb to the pressure and loan the 1000 dollars, even if your intuition is telling you that you shouldn't loan the 1000 dollars because it would cause you hardship or you may never be repaid.
This is a very different from "feeling pain when kicked in the balls"
I didn't say don't feel it.
I didn't say it doesn't hurt.
I said don't be MOVED by it, meaning, don't waver from your honor or principle and trusting your instincts for the sake of the pressure/pain of praise/persecution.
And the more SENSITIVE a person is, the more they need to know this stuff so they can control their own destiny and not be manipulated by those who are less caring and sensitive - the selfish, the greedy, the energy vampires.
Make sense?
And YES, I explain exactly "how to" near the end of the first DVD, beginning of the 2nd DVD in the Speed Summit Home Study course.
It's called the Mental Horse Stance and Tao/Jeet Kune Do principle of Balance in Motion.
You'll also discover how to:
* Move with Dynamic Intention
* Harness The Power of Focus
* Influence Others Magnetically
* Live By Design, Rather Than Default!
* The One Word Concept that is the KEY to Mastering Life
* How To Protect Your Energy
....and MORE!
(this is all on the first DVD by the way)
Listen up. This 7-DVD home study course (over 13 hours of live seminar footage) is available at an introductory price 295.00 until Sunday Night!
After that, it goes up to 495.00, no exceptions or time extensions. So if you're interested at all you really should buy now.
Yours in the Tao of Huna Light,
Scott Bolan
Monday, May 25, 2009
Never Fear Again!
These days its fairly easy to predict the weather.
Would you like to be able to predict YOUR future as easily as predicting when it's going to rain or snow?
When we know what the weather is going to be, we can easily prepare for it so we're never caught off-guard.
Why not approach life in a "prepared" mode?
Why not prepare in advance, so that you will meet the future with confidence ability and empowerment, rather than panic confusion and fear?
It's been said that "Luck" is what happens when preparedness meets opportunity. That's true. There's no such thing as luck except the luck which we create and act upon.
The Spirit Warrior makes his or her own luck.
Remember this important rule:
"Any Area of Your Life You Do Not Design, You Are Leaving To Default!"
So which will it be - a life by Design, or a life of Default?
The Speed Summit Home Study Course is the tool you need to Design your Perfect Life. It puts seven DVDS of pure power right on your doorstep (along with some amazing FREE bonuses if you act now)
Here's what's on just one of these seven DVDs
* Maximize Your Time, Effort and Results
* Create Your Own Sanctuary for Mind Mastery
* Destroy the Competition using the new "Throwback” and "Reversing" Techniques
* The Energy Capture Using Magnetic Force and Fulcrum Techniques (you can use this in the ring, at the dojo, on the street, in the boardroom - anywhere - to Win!)
* How To Attract Anyone You Like, and Repel Energy Vampires
* How To Increase and Multiply Your Sales & Business Results
* Why Salesmen Fail and How To Reverse It
* Some Secrets of Time Distortion
* Never Fear Again: How To Obliterate Fear and Get it out of your life for good!
* Changing Your Past Present & Future using Time Line Therapy
* Zanshin Hakalau: The Warriors Greatest Secret of Awareness
* How To Tell If Someone Is Lying (the complete course!)
....and More!
Not bad for one DVD, eh?
Helping You Always Win,
Scott Bolan
Would you like to be able to predict YOUR future as easily as predicting when it's going to rain or snow?
When we know what the weather is going to be, we can easily prepare for it so we're never caught off-guard.
Why not approach life in a "prepared" mode?
Why not prepare in advance, so that you will meet the future with confidence ability and empowerment, rather than panic confusion and fear?
It's been said that "Luck" is what happens when preparedness meets opportunity. That's true. There's no such thing as luck except the luck which we create and act upon.
The Spirit Warrior makes his or her own luck.
Remember this important rule:
"Any Area of Your Life You Do Not Design, You Are Leaving To Default!"
So which will it be - a life by Design, or a life of Default?
The Speed Summit Home Study Course is the tool you need to Design your Perfect Life. It puts seven DVDS of pure power right on your doorstep (along with some amazing FREE bonuses if you act now)
Here's what's on just one of these seven DVDs
* Maximize Your Time, Effort and Results
* Create Your Own Sanctuary for Mind Mastery
* Destroy the Competition using the new "Throwback” and "Reversing" Techniques
* The Energy Capture Using Magnetic Force and Fulcrum Techniques (you can use this in the ring, at the dojo, on the street, in the boardroom - anywhere - to Win!)
* How To Attract Anyone You Like, and Repel Energy Vampires
* How To Increase and Multiply Your Sales & Business Results
* Why Salesmen Fail and How To Reverse It
* Some Secrets of Time Distortion
* Never Fear Again: How To Obliterate Fear and Get it out of your life for good!
* Changing Your Past Present & Future using Time Line Therapy
* Zanshin Hakalau: The Warriors Greatest Secret of Awareness
* How To Tell If Someone Is Lying (the complete course!)
....and More!
Not bad for one DVD, eh?
Helping You Always Win,
Scott Bolan
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